Solid vote for respect and inclusion
On May 5, the Westerly Town Council issued five proclamations, which are statements signed by the council members setting aside days, weeks, and months in honor of various people and causes. The second week of May was declared Lung Cancer Action Week, May 18 was declared “Neighbor Day,” and May 8 was declared “Victory in Europe Day.” Police were honored with a proclamation that wasn’t on the agenda, and June was proclaimed Pride Month.These are the ordinary actions of municipal governments
across the country, and arouse little pushback or debate. But I was alerted by
some Westerly residents that there was pushback against Pride Month in some
online forums. In response, over a dozen people filled the council chamber
supporting Pride Month. Only two or three people were in the room in
opposition.
Council President Christopher Duhamel explained that the proclamation was introduced to him and Town Manager Shawn Lacey by First Selectman Danielle Chesebrough in neighboring Stonington, CT.
“I felt it was worth the Town of Westerly participating,”
said President Duhamel.
Councilmember Michael Niemeyer read the
proclamation into the record. It reads:
The Westerly Town Council proclaims June 2025 as Pride Month
In the Town of Westerly, a friendly and welcoming community
that celebrates and promotes diversity and inclusion and recognizes the
importance of equality and freedom for all residents.
Westerly recognizes the contributions of LGBTQIA+ residents,
students, employees, business owners, and visitors to the cultural and civic
fabric of the town and remains committed to protecting their civil rights in
our unified effort to forge a more open and just society.
Westerly joins many towns and cities across the United
States in recognizing and celebrating June as LGBTQIA+ Pride Month as a
commitment to standing in solidarity with all LGBTQIA+ Americans.
The Westerly Town Council hereby proclaims the month of June
2025 as Pride Month in support of the LGBTQIA+ community and encourages
everyone to reflect on ways we can all live and work together with commitment
to mutual respect and understanding.
In witness whereof, we have hereby set our hands and caused
the seal of the Town of Westerly to be hereunto affixed this 5th day of May
2025.
In witness whereof, we have hereby set our hands and caused
the Seal of the Town of Westerly to be here unto affixed this fifth day of May,
2025, signed by all counselors.
The council members received a standing ovation in response.
During citizen comments, two people spoke against the proclamation. Maurice Devine1 made the argument that service members are awarded one day of recognition, while LGBTQ+ people receive an entire month. Anya Kohlman2 argued that June is celebrated as the Month of the Sacred Heart in the Catholic Church, and that under President Donald Trump, we are moving away from what she called “genderism.”
Four people spoke in favor of the proclamation:
Janine Harrington: Today, I stand before you to
emphasize the importance of giving LGBTQIA+ citizens a month of visibility. The
initiative hurts no one in this room, yet its positive impact is immense for
those who face marginalization every day of their lives. In a world where love
should always win, we have the opportunity to uplift and support our fellow
citizens. In regards to Christianity, I am a Christian. Jesus loved everyone.
Jesus’ teachings on compassion, inclusion, and welcoming marginalized groups
are well known. That’s who he was. I want to thank every council member for
doing what is right and signing this proclamation. Together, we can make a
difference.
Linda Durand: I bought a house here in Westerly
about 32 years ago, and it’s so beautiful. I’m so happy to be here. However, I
also am gay, and Westerly is not always so welcoming, so a proclamation like
this means a lot to many people.
Angela Goethals: I was in New York with my mom
over the weekend and saw an adaptation of Chekov’s Uncle Vanya. This is a
play with a cast of eight people, and it was performed by one actor. I bring it
up because I was reflecting on the celebration of humanity on that stage, to
see one human being inhabit all of these different roles. They were men, women,
old, young, beautiful, or as one described herself, unfortunately plain. I’m
proud to live in Westerly. I’m proud to raise my children here, and I’m proud
of June as Pride Month.
Annie Pierce: I want to thank everyone on the
town council who supported this proclamation of Pride Month. Although a short
statement, it is a gesture long in decency and thoughtfulness, particularly for
a group so many of us love and support that has been maligned because of
ignorance, fear, and power. The hope is that this proclamation will be a symbol
for what the majority of us know and understand to be true. There is no you and
me, but us, and when you lift that one person, one group, in our community, we lift
all of us.
Members of the town council responded:
Councilmember Michael Niemeyer: Regarding your
comments, Mr. Devine, thank you for being respectful. I know that Ms. Kohlman
has left, but I did want to say she took it a little further than you did, and
was talking about “genderism.” I don’t know what that is. And this notion of
the majority must crush the minority - I don’t like that at all. I don’t
appreciate that approach to politics. We should all be in this together.
To the folks who spoke in favor of Pride Month - it’s
strange to think that when I was a kid, gay people couldn’t get married. Some
of you might be a bit older than me and have lived under that condition for a
bunch of your lives, but to think that my sister and her wife wouldn’t have
been able to get married is mind-boggling. It’s so bizarre. I’m so proud of our
progress on that front in this country. I’m glad we have a chance to celebrate
it, and I’m glad to celebrate it with all of you.
Councilmember Alexandra Healy: I want to thank
everybody for coming out, watching, listening, and speaking. It makes a very
big difference. We have strength in our diversity here in town. We welcome
people by the thousands every year. We welcome people of any kind, and I think
it’s amazing to say, “Hey guys, you’re valid, you’re heard, and you’re seen,
even by our local government.”
I want to touch on that a bit. In Westerly, the majority are
Democrats. They won across the board in 2024. Fifty-three percent voted blue
for Kamala, not including everybody else: Senator in Congress - Democrat.
Representative in Congress - Democrat. Senator in Districts 37, 36, 38 -
Democrats.
We are holding true to everybody who voted for us. We are
holding true to our morals and our values, and I appreciate being able to sit
up here and say that publicly. Thank you all for coming.
Council President Christopher Duhamel: I’ll
conclude. The Proclamation for Pride Month was in concert with the Town of
Stonington. They’re reaching out to be inclusive, and I felt that Westerly also
represents that. The other proclamations honoring our veterans and our police
are just as important. I don’t know that a day or a month has to equate to
that, but the sacrifices they do for us daily and throughout the year are near
and dear to us. That’s all I have to say.
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